Among the questions that straight men ask most when talking to a sexologist, possibly the two most repeated and that concern them most have to do with their ability and the way they can give pleasure to their bed partner. Thus it is common for them to ask about eating her out and how to make a girl squirt. But what do we know about the latter?
The mind plays a very important role in achieving squirting. That's why it's important to be relaxed and not get frustrated if you don't succeed at first.
What is squirting and how do you get it?
Have you heard of squirting? The term is a bit recent and became popular a few years ago because of the boom that adult movies have had with this type of scenes.
It comes from the word "squirt", and refers to female ejaculation, characterized by the abundant discharge of fluid.
The subject was taboo for a long time, especially because of the inhibition of female pleasure. It has also generated controversy, as some suggest that it is simply a matter of urine leakage.
What does the research say, why are so many interested in knowing more about this topic, and why do we want to solve these questions? In addition, we share some techniques that help to achieve this.
What is squirting?
When some women reach a climax, they involuntarily experience a discharge of liquids similar to urine, and this is what is known as squirting.
The term is more popular in the pornographic film industry which, in a way, has been responsible for publicizing this type of ejaculation around the world.
Excretion should not be confused with normal ejaculation (in which a woman expels a small amount of thick or milky liquid), but should refer to the expulsion of watery liquid that is literally released "in spurts".
According to information published in the International Urogynecology Journal, female ejaculation comes from the Skene glands, which are located around the so-called female prostate, whose function is to collect lubrication and then transport it through the direct channels of the urethra.
For its part, and according to this same publication, squirting is the transurethral orgasmic expulsion of tenths of millimeters of a form of urine containing various concentrations of urea, creatinine and uric acid.
Squirting is an involuntary discharge of fluid during orgasm. For many women, it is still unknown.
Squirting: what the research says
The origin of squirting in women is an issue that continues to generate controversy. While some think they are involuntary leakage of urine upon reaching orgasm, others claim they are completely foreign fluids. But what does the research say?
Well, if we take into account a series of studies that have been done on the subject, we have to say that it is an abundant liquid coming from the urethra, the same route through which urine passes from the bladder. However, it is not as such urine, but a diluted liquid containing other substances.
Research published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine found that squirting is an involuntary release of a form of urine that also has prostatic secretions. In particular, it contains various concentrations of urea, creatinine and uric acid.
Now, leaving aside its origin and composition, the truth is that women who experience it claim to feel a lot of pleasure. Therefore, achieving it during the sexual act has become a challenge for many couples.
How to achieve a squirting? 10 tricks to achieve it
Squirting has become a sexual challenge for couples. However, many choose to experience it alone, through masturbation. The most important thing is to focus on the objective, do it calmly and not give up if it is not achieved in the first attempt.
1. Relax your mind
To get squirting it is important to be relaxed.
The mind plays a very important role in sexual enjoyment. That is why, to achieve a maximum degree of pleasure, you must be calm and convinced of what you want to do. If you don't manage to relax, or if you start to feel anxious about "not getting there" quickly, it will be harder for you to achieve it.
2. Know your body
When you know your body you have a great advantage when it comes to having sex. This allows you to know what your weakest points are and how you can guide your partner to enhance enjoyment.
3. Erotic Excitement
In order to release all the necessary sensations to stimulate a squirt, it is necessary to perform preliminaries: kissing, caressing, sexual games and everything that can increase sensitivity.
Lubricating the intimate area before stimulation begins can help increase the degree of pleasure during sex.
5. Clitoral Stimulation
A correct stimulation of the clitoris triggers indescribable, really exciting sensations that can facilitate orgasm. It is important to combine circular movements, pressure and speed, avoiding being too abrupt so as not to reduce sensitivity.
To reach the target more easily, penetration should preferably be with the fingers or with the help of sex toys.
The pelvis should be as relaxed as possible and the legs open. If you like, you can put a pillow to lift the pelvis and improve the experience.
An adequate stimulation of the G-spot is ideal to increase pleasure and encourage squirting.
G-spot stimulation is a decisive moment when looking for squirting. The G-spot is located two phalanges inside the vagina, towards the clitoris.
Once located, you can make light pressure on it in circles, varying the speed. This will increase the pressure on the Skene glands which, as mentioned, are the ones that produce the ejaculatory fluid.
8. External massage to achieve squirting
To create a boom of sensations, it is good to combine the stimulation of the G spot with light massages on the clitoris. Put your thumb on the clitoris and make smooth movements, at various speeds.
9. Pelvic movements
To facilitate the contraction of the muscles before squirting, it is convenient to move the pelvis forward, squeezing the buttocks. In this way you will feel more pleasure and, in minutes, you will begin to feel that sensation of wanting to ejaculate.
10. Sensation of urination
When you are about to reach a squirt, you experience a feeling similar to when you want to urinate. Don't stop, stay relaxed until you get it out.